Your current to-do list is a need-to-do, have-to-do, or should-do list, and that’s a problem. You’ve invented all kinds of things that are missing or wrong with your life, work, or self and that you feel need fixing or changing.
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The Other Side of Your Comfort Zone
Most people are living a default life – you can predict where they’ll be in a few years by looking at how things have been going for them leading up to now.
In many cases, this is difficult for people to recognize due to the fact that they’ve been running on autopilot for so long.
This is why coaches prioritize empowering clients to challenge the status quo, or, in this case, the inertia of the default life.